2008 saw the formation of ‘PAFFA’, just an idea from the
thought that ‘we can’t be the only ones’. Months of worry, dread
and feeling isolated led to that point. The will and desire to
do something positive was in us. To do something worthwhile for
others in the same unique situation was the aim. Quite what, we
were not really sure, but did it anyway!
With the valuable support, advice and friendship of others,
PAFFA slowly gained momentum. A small acorn has grown, not quite
into an oak tree, but at least a sapling that has now
established its roots.
In the past year PAFFA has attended five public events to raise
awareness.
Sent several ‘Hugs in a Hamper’ to Police Staff who had family
being sent on deployment.
With donations from across the force, sent six large cardboard
boxes stuffed full of Christmas Gifts to Service Personnel in
both Iraq and Afghanistan.
Donated £100 to The Yellow Ribbon Foundation.
Donated £100 to Help for Heroes.
Developed a Website.
Adopted ‘Delta’ as our mascot.
Become a Limited (not for profit) Company.
Opened a Bank Account.
Made many new friends.
PAFFA aims this year to develop further our awareness campaign
by attending public events such as The Force Families Day. PAFFA
is also organising a Charity Skydive for the summer.
PAFFA aims to strengthen existing links to other related
organisations and to forge new links.
There will be a progression towards becoming a national
organisation, to include all Police Forces.
PAFFA will be supporting two Charities this year.
The first will be a Military Charity.
A meeting is being held in February with SSAFFA in London to
propose that PAFFA supports their venture into providing
accommodation for families that have a member of their family
who is in Selly Oak Hospital due to injuries received in Iraq or
Afghanistan. At the moment local B&B is all that is on offer. A
Purpose built house is being built but will need to be equipped
and made comfortable.
Their website is www.ssafa.org.uk
The second will be a Police Charity.
COPS (Care of Police Survivors) provides support for the
families of Police Officers killed on duty.
COPS have their own website www.ukcops.org
PAFFA believes both these Charities are very worthwhile causes,
close to all our hearts, and is in keeping with PAFFA’s own
emphasis on ‘families’.
PAFFA is grateful for all the help and support it has received,
both in its formation and on going activity.
To finish, an email recently received by PAFFA from a mother of
a soldier serving in Afghanistan:-
"Hi Bob and Margaret, have looked at website earlier and printed
off copy of The Ode. Found it immensely moving and DID cry!
Thank you both so much for phoning me last night, it really has
helped to talk to someone who understands!!
Had a great big hug from Paffa! So many thanks to your bro' Dave
for bringing that round to me. Was very tearful this morning,
thinking about James and everybody! Been good, but Xmas Eve an'
all, you know what I mean! Loads of people lighting candles
2.00pm tomorrow
Keep in touch and prayers for all of them."
Wendy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Finally..... Bob and Margaret are proud to announce that
Daughter Laura has received a hard earned Commendation in the
New Year (Defence) Honours List for Meritorious Service,
including help she has given in setting up PAFFA. Well done.
PAFFA JAN 2009